
❤️ Struggling With Parenting – as a Parent or as a Child?
Whether you’re trying to raise your kids better…
or still feeling the weight of how you were raised…
the pain is real — and the healing is possible.
You don’t have to cut people off.
You don’t have to carry the guilt, resentment, or confusion alone.
- “Why do I keep snapping at my child?”
- “Why do I still feel like a child around my parents?”
- “Why do I carry so much guilt, when I’m doing my best?”
If any of those sound familiar, you’re not broken.
You’re caught in an emotional pattern — often inherited, often invisible — but absolutely reversible.

🔄 Real-Life Examples: Where the Struggle Starts
Let’s look at how everyday parenting issues can weigh you down emotionally — even if you're doing your best.
💔 As a Parent, You Might Feel:
Situation
You snap at your kids, then feel immediate guilt
You're trying to do better than your parents — but don’t know how
You give everything, but still feel unappreciated
Your kids don’t talk to you — or you’re always arguing
You’re overcompensating for your own past
Emotional Impact
Trapped in a cycle of anger → shame → over-apologizing or shutting down
Constant self-doubt, fear of messing them up
Burnout, resentment, and questioning your worth as a parent
Helplessness, sadness, and emotional distance in your own home
Overprotection, perfectionism, or people-pleasing with your kids
😔 As an Adult Child, You Might Feel
Situation
You avoid phone calls or visits with your parents
You still feel like the “child” — even in your 30s, 40s, or 50s
Your parents minimize your struggles or say “we did our best”
You care for aging parents who were emotionally distant
You still crave approval or affection they can’t give
Emotional Impact
Guilt mixed with emotional overwhelm and dread
Inability to assert boundaries or make decisions without fear of judgment
Emotional invalidation, feeling unseen, or stuck in old wounds
Internal war between compassion and unresolved hurt
Low self-worth, people-pleasing, or codependency in adult life

Real People, Real Change
“I avoided my mom for years but couldn’t figure out why. This process gave me language for my pain and a way to reconnect without losing myself.” — Renae, 37
“I stopped parenting from guilt and started leading from love. My home is calmer — and I feel proud of who I’m becoming.” — Jasmine, 39
Step You Can Take | What You’ll Gain | Action |
|---|---|---|
📘 Read the Book | Learn how emotional cycles form and how to break them | Get the Book |
🎓 Take a Course | Step-by-step emotional healing from the comfort of your home | Explore Courses |
🤝 Book a Session | Book a Session with Kenny directly to understand what’s right for you | Book a Session |

🕊️ This Isn’t About Perfection. It’s About Peace.
You don’t have to be the perfect parent.
You don’t have to carry old wounds forever.
You don’t have to keep guessing at how to feel whole again.
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With the right tools and support, you can heal — and still love the people who hurt you.
Testimonials
Voices of Transformation
Voices of Transformation
Hear from clients who turned their struggles into strength with Kenny’s support.

