Heal The Hurt Podcast

Your Weekly Journey to Emotional Authenticity

Join Kenny Weiss every week as he shares transformational insights on healing childhood trauma, breaking codependency patterns, mastering communication, and reclaiming your authentic self.

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About the Podcast

Heal The Hurt is a weekly podcast by Kenny Weiss, a relationship, communication, and childhood trauma recovery specialist. With over 100 episodes available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube, the show covers emotional regulation, codependency recovery, attachment wounds, and relationship repair.

The podcast teaches three proprietary frameworks: the Worst Day Cycle™, the Authentic Self Cycle™, and the Emotional Authenticity Method™ — designed to help listeners identify repeating emotional patterns rooted in childhood, break free from codependency, and rebuild trust, intimacy, and connection in their relationships.

Kenny Weiss is an ICF Certified Professional Life Coach and the author of Your Journey to Success andYour Journey to Being Yourself. His work has helped thousands of people transform their relationships by resolving the root causes of communication breakdown, emotional shutdown, and repeating conflict cycles. Learn more about his approach on the Emotional Authenticity Method page or explore related topics on the blog.

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You Don't Hate Yourself — You're Hearing Your Childhood Caregiver
June 16, 202616m

You Don't Hate Yourself — You're Hearing Your Childhood Caregiver

Self-hate is not a personal feeling. It is the absorbed internal voice of a critical caregiver, mistaken for the self's own thought. You have been arguing with the wrong narrator for thirty years....

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Resentment Is a Receipt — Every Time You Said Yes When You Meant No
June 11, 202612m

Resentment Is a Receipt — Every Time You Said Yes When You Meant No

Resentment is not unresolved anger toward another person. It is the rage of the abandoned self toward the survival persona that did the abandoning. Every line item on the receipt is a moment you said ...

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Why You Keep Ending Up in Situationships — The Childhood Blueprint
June 9, 202622m

Why You Keep Ending Up in Situationships — The Childhood Blueprint

A situationship is not a modern dating phenomenon. It is the perfect adult re-creation of an inconsistent childhood attachment, where intermittent emotional reward becomes the only way the nervous sys...

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Mommy Issues Isn't a Joke — It's Your Emotional Blueprint
June 4, 202616m

Mommy Issues Isn't a Joke — It's Your Emotional Blueprint

Mommy issues are not a personality quirk. They are the maternal nervous system's emotional climate installed in the child's body before language, becoming the adult's internal weather syst...

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Weaponized Incompetence - The Childhood Strategy Killing Your Marriage
June 2, 202618m

Weaponized Incompetence - The Childhood Strategy Killing Your Marriage

Weaponized incompetence is not manipulation and not laziness. It is the adult expression of a childhood survival strategy where deliberate failure protected the child from engulfment or punishment for...

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Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn - Why You Keep Reacting Like a Scared Child
May 28, 202634m

Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn - Why You Keep Reacting Like a Scared Child

Fight, flight, freeze, and fawn are not bad habits, not personality flaws, and not things you can think your way out of. They are childhood survival states still running in your adult nervous system, ...

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Fear of Abandonment Is Why You Picked Them - The Trauma Blueprint Nobody Talks About
May 26, 202628m

Fear of Abandonment Is Why You Picked Them - The Trauma Blueprint Nobody Talks About

Fear of abandonment is not a personality, it is a childhood blueprint that is still picking your partners for you. Your nervous system is not scanning the room for who will be good to you, it is scann...

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Enmeshment: Why You're Still Emotionally Married to Your Mother
May 21, 202618m

Enmeshment: Why You're Still Emotionally Married to Your Mother

Enmeshment is why your marriage feels lonely even when nothing is wrong, and your spouse has been competing with your mother for years without anyone naming it.If you call your mom four times a day, r...

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Avoidant Attachment - The Six Hidden Selves Inside the Partner Who Pulls Away
May 19, 202617m

Avoidant Attachment - The Six Hidden Selves Inside the Partner Who Pulls Away

Avoidant attachment is not coldness, it is a six-part survival system the avoidant built before they could read, and until you can name all six parts, no relationship advice will reach them.If you are...

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Reactive Abuse Isn't a Defense - It's Your Survival Persona
May 14, 202626m

Reactive Abuse Isn't a Defense - It's Your Survival Persona

Reactive abuse is real, and it is also the disempowered survival persona abusing from the victim position. Both partners are using the same control mechanisms from opposite ends of the same codependen...

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