RELATIONSHIP STARTER COURSE • $79
Emotional Blueprint Map — For Your Relationship
You're Not Bad at Love. You're Reliving Your Blueprints.
A starter course to help you see the childhood emotional blueprints behind your fights, distance, and defensiveness — so you can stop hurting each other on repeat. Instant access. No couple-bashing, no blame — just the truth behind your patterns.
The Process
Worst Day Cycle
Emotional Authenticity
Authentic Self Cycle
Who This Is For
This Is for You If…
- You keep having the same fight, no matter what the topic is
- One of you tends to chase, over-explain, or push for resolution, and the other tends to shut down, defend, or walk away
- You feel like you're walking on eggshells at home
- You've tried communicating better, being nicer, or "staying calm," and it still blows up
- You love each other, but you're scared that if something doesn't change, one of you will emotionally check out or eventually leave
What You'll Learn
What You'll Get Inside the Relationship Emotional Blueprint Map
Why You Can't Stop Having the Same Fight
Why a tiny trigger — a tone, a text, a look, a comment about kids or money — turns into the same painful argument over and over.
Two Emotional Blueprints, One Relationship
How each of you learned, in childhood, what love, conflict, and safety mean — and how those different rules collide every time you argue.
The Worst Day Cycle in Your Relationship
How Trauma → Fear → Shame → Denial plays out in both of your nervous systems, and why your reactions make perfect sense given what you lived through.
The Pursuer, the Distancer & the Race to Blaming
Why one of you pushes for connection, and the other shuts down, and how you end up competing over who's "more hurt" or "more right" instead of repairing.
The Signature Fight Mapping Exercise
A step-by-step guided process to trace your "we always end up here" fight back to its origin and see the emotional rules you each wrote as kids.
What's Included
Welcome Video (Relationship Focus)
How to move through this as a couple or on your own without shaming or blaming
Downloadable Relationship Workbook
Prompts and exercises to map your signature fight (PDF)
Guided Exercise Video
Kenny walks you through mapping one of your recurring conflicts back to your childhood blueprints
Next Steps Video
Clear guidance on how to continue: from insight to actual repair and reconnection
All in a simple, self-paced starter course you can revisit any time.
Why This Is Different
Not Another "Just Communicate Better" Course
Worst Day Cycle
Emotional Authenticity
Authentic Self Cycle
You've probably tried:
- Using "I-statements"
- Taking breaks when things get heated
- Reading books, going to retreats, or even counseling
But the same shame buttons keep getting pushed, the same roles keep showing up, and the same words come out of your mouths.
The Relationship Emotional Blueprint Map shows you:
- The emotional rules each of you learned about love, safety, and conflict
- How those rules are reenacting your Worst Day Cycles in every big argument
- Where to begin if you want to fight in a way that leads to repair instead of quiet resentment
This doesn't tell you who's right or wrong — it shows you the blueprint underneath.
This is the map you should have been given at the very start of your relationship, not years into it.
Meet Your Guide, Kenny Weiss
Kenny Weiss is the creator of the Emotional Authenticity Method™, the Worst Day Cycle™, and the Authentic Self Cycle™.
He's helped thousands of high-functioning, emotionally exhausted couples stop reliving their childhood in their adult relationships by healing their emotional blueprint at the root.
His work is:
- Trauma-informed
- Shame-aware
- Spiritually respectful
No couple-bashing. No spiritual bypass. No fluffy "just communicate better" advice. Just the emotional truth you were never taught — and a path back to your Authentic Self.
Frequently Asked Questions
You're Not Each Other's Enemy. Your Blueprints Are.
If you're this tired of hurting each other, it means you've both been trying.
You're closer than you think.
Start by seeing the invisible blueprints running your fights.
Map Our Relationship Blueprint — $79
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