How To Outsmart A Narcissist

Want to outsmart a narcissist? In today's video I provide the eight best ways to disarm and outsmart a narcissist. Narcissists are cunning and calculating individuals who know how to manipulate people into doing their bidding. So in this video, I'll provide tips on how to deal with a narcissist and protect yourself from their manipulation.

This video is for people who are struggling with a relationship with a narcissist, or who have been hurt by a narcissist in the past. I will also provide you with additional resources so you will be rock-solid in your ability to use them.

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Here are the timestamp chapters for the video script, based on the content of each section:

0:00 - Tip #1: The Wall of Pleasantness

(Disengage, be disinterested, and use neutral responses like "I'm sure you'll work it out" to remove their emotional supply. Recommended reading: *Facing Codependence* by Pia Mellody.)

1:29- Tip #2: Get Outside Support

(You cannot navigate this alone. Hire a coach, therapist, or join a support group to hold you accountable and keep you from going back. Mention of Kenny's private group.)

:30 - Tip #3: Don't JADE (Justify, Argue, Defend, Explain)

(Stop trying to correct them or explain your side. They want you to engage. Mention of free download: "How to Keep Your Boundaries in 3 Simple Steps.")

3:14 - Tip #4: Agree With Them

(Disarm them by agreeing with their insults or lies. Understand that their criticisms are actually confessions about themselves. Mention of the "Self-Deception and Denial" playlist.)

5:40 - Tip #5: Get A Life (Actions, Not Words)

(Prove they are insignificant by pursuing your own needs, wants, and hobbies. Mention of video: "Codependence Recovery: How To Ask For Your Needs & Wants.")

7:55 - Tip #6: Mirror Their Behavior (Use With Caution)

(Acting like them can backfire and make you feel self-loathing. It is dangerous ground.)

8:40 - The Truth About Empaths & Narcissists

(A deep dive into why "Empaths" are often unhealed codependents manipulating from the victim position. Taking responsibility for your part in the dynamic.)

11:25- Tip #7: Heal Your Childhood Trauma

(You cannot outsmart a narcissist until you heal the childhood wounds that attracted them. Mention of the book *Your Journey To Success* and the *Complete Emotional Mastery Method* classes.)

13:10 - Tip #8: Don't Become One

(Why trying to "out-narcissist" the narcissist destroys your own soul. A final call to choose recovery over revenge.)

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Hi, I'm Kenny, a Coach, YouTuber, Podcaster, and Author in Phoenix, Arizona. I make videos about the strategies and tools to help you heal from emotional hurt to elevate your life. I'm an advocate for truth and healing.

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