If We Loved Our Parents We Would Do This

"I need to make the distinction between blame and responsibility.

Blame says that you did something wrong. You did something that you could’ve done differently and therefore you are at fault.

Responsibility says yes, you did this to yourself but not consciously or deliberately. You did it because you were programmed to do it by your own childhood experience which in turn was programmed by your parents childhood experience

Therefore nobody is at fault. Everybody does their best but we do pass