Why Fixing Communication Never Fixes the Relationship

You keep trying to fix the words.

The tone.

The reactions.

But those are symptoms — not the cause.

Underneath every shutdown or pursuit is a child who learned how to survive love.

Those strategies worked once.

They just don’t work here.

Healing starts when the blueprint is named —

not when the argument is won.

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