She sat across from me, 17 years into her marriage, eyes filled with a quiet kind of pain.

She sat across from me, 17 years into her marriage, eyes filled with a quiet kind of pain.

“I’ve made a list,” she said. “Five things I now know are non-negotiable for me… and I’m living with all five.”

Her voice cracked.

“How do I deal with this? After 17 years?”

And that’s when it hit me—this is why I talk about this in every single video.

Most people have never been taught to identify their morals, values, needs, wants, negotiables, and non-negotiables.

Not in relationships, not in careers,