One of the hardest lessons in love?

Realizing it’s not your partner’s job to meet your needs.

I used to think…

“If they really loved me, they’d just know.”

But that mindset left me constantly disappointed — and unfairly blaming them for wounds that weren’t theirs to fix.

Here’s what I learned:

Healthy relationships begin when you stop outsourcing your needs…

and start taking responsibility for them.

Your joy.

Your peace.

Your sense of worth.

That’s your job — not theirs.

And when you meet your own needs first,

you stop demandi