Are you constantly afraid that you're going to lose your relationship? In this article, I will help you by sharing seven characteristics of a person who lives in that constant fear of loss and the seven solutions to stop feeling so fearful. These characteristics have...
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The Bad Vegan and The Worst Day Cycle
This article and accompanying video is an analysis of the happenings that took place in the Netflix docu-series Bad Vegan - Fame. Fraud. Fugitives. In this article, I will be discussing what created the attraction between the ‘meat suit’. Otherwise known as Anthony...
Manipulative Relationship Tactics Not To Fall For
Do you ever feel like your partner is manipulating you? In today's article, I will be sharing five different manipulative tactics people use in relationships. With this new understanding, you can protect yourself from manipulators. 1- They take advantage of your...
Are They a Codependent or a Narcissist?
Did you know that many people confuse a subtype of codependency with Narcissist? It is critically important to know the difference between the two because you can save a relationship with a codependent, but you can’t keep a relationship with a narcissist. What’s...
How to Fight Fair and Save Your Relationship
Today we’re talking about how to fight fair and save your relationship. We’re covering three main topics: reality arguments (the source of every fight), the basic ground rules for a fight, and a detailed confrontational model that will literally save your...
Understanding Morals and Values | Codependence Recovery
If you’re recovering from Codependency and are searching for a way to improve your relationships, finances, or general mental health, it’s vital that you: Understand your morals and values Ask for your needs and wants Determine your negotiable’s and non-negotiable’s...
When a Man or Woman Shuts Down Emotionally
Are you in a relationship with a man or woman who shuts down emotionally and avoids intimacy and connection? Would you like to know if you can save the relationship? That's what we're talking about in today's article. First, I will be breaking down what causes a love...
10 Ways To Conquer Codependence
Welcome back! In today’s article, I will share what I believe are the 10 steps both personality types should take to heal from codependence. If you are unsure which type you are, go back and watch my video on the two types. One is the classic disempowered: this is...
The Two Codependent Personality Types
Welcome back! Today I'm talking about the fascinating polarity of the two codependent personality types. Codependence can be characterized as living on one end of two extremes. The typical "disempowered" that we commonly identify with on one extreme and the "falsely...
What Causes Codependency
Hello and welcome! Today I'm breaking down what causes codependency. To start, I'm going to share a passage straight from Pia Mellody's Facing Codependence. I believe the way she's explained the causes of codependence is so critical for every person. After reading her...
What Is Enmeshment?
Welcome back! Today we are talking about enmeshment: what is it? It’s not something most people are aware of – perhaps you’ve never even heard the term. So let’s dive right into it. Enmeshment is a parenting style that’s mischaracterized as loving and loyal – in...
How To Ask For Your Needs & Wants | Codependence Recovery
Welcome back! This is a continuation of a three-part series on codependence recovery – the first is on determining our morals and values. Today I am showing the difference between a need and a want and the five main ways codependent people cannot meet their needs and...
The Signs Of Enmeshment
In this article, I'm talking about the signs and characteristics of enmeshment. I've spoken about what it is (because many people are unaware), breaking down the differences between enmeshment and codependence in previous articles and videos. I encourage you to check...
Codependence Recovery: How To Determine Our Negotiable’s And Non-negotiable’s
Today I'm talking about the importance and differences between negotiable's and non-negotiable's when it comes to codependence recovery. The first thing to recognize is that we must know our morals and values to know our negotiable and non-negotiable's. I've done...
How To Say No Without Feeling Guilty
Today we’re breaking down the 5 step process so you can start saying no without feeling guilty – this is going to include two magic phrases that work every time. I am also going to talk about why we feel guilty for saying no. First, let’s start with the 5 step...